Hey guys, so if you don’t
know, I suffer sometimes from what I think is a form of anxiety. Recently I
have been wondering and thinking back as to why I have anxiety, as someone
mentioned to me once that it must be something that affected me whilst I was growing
up.
When I do think back, all I
can relay my thoughts to, is how I was treated by bullies, and just nasty people for
years.
The way I always was nice to people, but ended up getting treated like
crap, this not only lowered my confidence, but also really affected my self-esteem.
The thing is can I really just sit there feeling angry for how others treated
me? After all they were just teenagers as was I. It does sometimes upset me when
I look back to this day (even though I’m 22 now) but my life is so different to
how it was then (socially).
I’m in such a good place in
life, I work hard for the things I have,
and maybe I can use my horrible
experience for good?
So what I’m trying to say
is, if you had a bad experience with something a couple of years ago, don’t let
it affect the rest of your life, because you will be sitting there angry at
them and YOURSELF. So for the days that I feel self-doubt about myself because of a previous bad experience, hopefully I can look back at this blog post and think differently.
I really want to do something anti-bullying wise, I would love to help at least one person. Many people deal with bullying not only in school, but it can also be in working life aswell!
Hope everyone has a good day :) And don't live too much in the past! Love Laura <3
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I'm very happy for you that you were able to overcome your past! I'm sure you will do great in any anti-bullying project you embark on. Good luck.
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DeleteBullying takes so much time to get over, sometimes you don't even realize how it has affected your confidence. I'm glad to know you feel happy now x
ReplyDeleteYe, I'm so glad I've became a better person because of it in a weird way x
DeleteSome really good advice there! People do tend to dwell on the past - it's important to remember that everything passes! Great post!
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DeleteThis was such a wonderful, inspiring post to read on a Monday morning! Thank you!
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In a weird way it's good to hear other people have anxiety aswell as I don't feel so alone with it. Oh no :( I hope you're OK! Everyone has their way that they deal with it xx
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Such a lovely blog post, thank you. I did one about over coming bullies and I'd also love to do something to stop bullying.
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This was really great. I also suffer from some anxiety, and the best advice you gave was not to live in the past. I love how cute your picture is, unfair bullies prey on people with beautiful souls! <3
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I know the feeling...I have many experiences I´d rather blurr out but essentially they are part of my life and made the person that I am today...sadly but true...once you realize, you can decide at any moment in time to create your own life, make your own choices, than you know, you can achieve anything and the past truly won´t matter!
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You're very right! Living in the past can bring up unnecessary hurt feelings. Sounds like you're in a good place now, enjoy hun! ♥♥ You seem to have grown a lot from your experience, so I guess it's true that there's no rainbow without rain. Wishing you the best for the future x
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Love your blog, what a lovely post! So many people suffer from so sort of anxiety (including myself) but I never have the courage to write about it myself so thank you and well done! Just followed you so looking forward to your upcoming posts!
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